BDSM Watch Comments

Husband Leaves Wife to Become Slave

Sat, 24 Jan 2009 11:05:18 -0500

Author: boot licker
Date: Apr 17, 2009 4:25 PM

Hurrah for George Evans, who has achieved his goal in life. There area many who envy him, and perhaps a great many Women who wish They could find one like him. What a pity that there is no efficient “dating service” to match these pairs. There is a haphazard system, and it is ridddled with fraud and insincerity, alas. Might George implore his kind Mistress to undertake such a programme?

The Trial of Stanley Scott Sadler

Wed, 31 May 2006 07:44:04 -0500

Author: Tyciol
Date: Mar 2, 2009 6:19 PM

It’s totally possible to confuse 14yos and 19yos, that’s why people need to be careful.

It Was the Best Sex

Mon, 05 Jun 2006 05:28:30 -0500

Author: max
Date: Feb 11, 2009 2:33 PM

i love a girl in control and have not found one chick who would wanna try and they get a little boring. i wanna switch roles with bondage but mostly sub.

Kidnapping Fetishist Arrested

Sun, 02 Mar 2008 13:55:00 -0500

Author: masters_mynx
Date: Nov 10, 2008 5:00 PM

i see nothing illegal here. Sir and i do this kind of play regularly. As long as he hadn’t done anything i don’t see how he could get arrested. And what if i ordered chloroform? i’m not going to go and kidnap anyone, but i think it would help in the mindset of being ‘kidnapped’ wouldn’t you?

Stupid S&M News

Mon, 18 Feb 2008 16:33:14 -0500

Author: masters_mynx
Date: Nov 10, 2008 4:56 PM

It’s rare for a masochist to associate pain with pleasure? uhm…no when i feel Sir scratching my back as hard as he can if feels awfully good to me, maybe these people don’t have a kinky bone in their body. They know nothing of the lifestyle therefore should be more ‘educated’ before making assumptions or evaluating U/us! Also if they haven’t tried something how do they know if it hurts or not?

Kidnapping Fetishist Arrested

Sun, 02 Mar 2008 13:55:00 -0500

Author: Chain/ meesekite
Date: Aug 21, 2008 10:38 AM
URL: http://meesekite.livejournal.com/

Hello… I also dont see how he did anything illegal given he seemed to wish to deal with only consenting others. However the danger with such a scenario is the “rapist” arriving at the scene, and “raping” the wrong woman…in which case it would be actual non consensual rape. -Chain/meesekite

When BDSM Becomes Abuse

Mon, 27 Feb 2006 08:01:50 -0500

Author: sw
Date: Aug 20, 2008 9:00 AM

She was not stupid. She was abused. Only someone who has never suffered abuse in this most nauseating form could possibly call her stupid: first he gained her trust, then she gave him power to control her, and he used that power to hurt her as much as his monstrosity permitted and the control to keep doing it as long as possible. His monstrosity is strictly his fault, a reflection of a truly pathetic individual who needed to hurt someone in terrible ways in order to feel good about themselves.

Glenn Marcus : New Trial

Sat, 16 Aug 2008 07:04:59 -0500

Author: Chain
Date: Aug 17, 2008 11:41 PM
URL: http://meesekite.livejournal.com/

While Glenn should have been completely aquitted, I am pleased he will have another trial. Perhaps this time thr truth of Glenns innocence will prevail over the lies of the prosecution and its sole witness. Word to the wise…I found on another site that an FBI prosecutor asked the webmaster at downonmyknees (who also owns this site I believe) for the email adresses of those of us who posted on Glenns case previously. Of course he could not say something at the time, nor can he say so now…but I surely can. Post with caution, people. Sincerely, Chain

Mistress Lucinda

Tue, 12 Sep 2006 07:57:38 -0500

Author: vtcw34
Date: Jul 29, 2008 7:31 PM

Fetish Dating

Sat, 06 May 2006 08:28:46 -0500

Author: MzBootz
Date: Apr 10, 2008 3:26 PM
URL: http://myspace.com/thequeenoftheuniverse

I’ll give a big “whips up” for fetish dating sites. I have been so blessed to have connected to some truly wonder ful people that share my interests in BDSM (bondage-discipline-sadism-masochism) . Many of us have found true relationship happiness as well and fantastic friends!

Breath Play Session Fatality?

Sun, 15 Jul 2007 18:49:35 -0500

Author: Tim
Date: Mar 17, 2008 4:36 PM

I’m very interested in breath play sessions, specifically those that result in fatality, the risks, etc. I would be very appreciative if you could point me in a direction for more research.

Kidnapping Fetishist Arrested

Sun, 02 Mar 2008 13:55:00 -0500

Author: ShatteredSoul
Date: Mar 12, 2008 11:09 AM
URL: http://www.alternativealbany.com

I don’t see how he did anything that was illegal. In fact people all the time make deals to be kidnapped and raped. How it works is one person who wants to be raped, finds another person willing to do the rape. Typically cash is exchanged (although in the USA thats prostitution and illegal) between the two. A date and GENERAL time is set (example between 12:00 pm and 2:00 pm “victim” will be at some place…) Limits are discussed. And the kidnap and “rape” takes place. As long as its consented and contracted, I don’t see how any crime takes place. Likewise, buying such materials and making such boasts, is not illegal. What if this guy did in fact do consensual kidnap/rapes and thats what he was referring too?

Stupid S&M News

Mon, 18 Feb 2008 16:33:14 -0500

Author: M.Yu
Date: Feb 29, 2008 5:17 PM
URL: http://jadegate.blogspot.com/

Many psychologists are amazingly out of touch about sexuality and especially alternative sexual expression but it is amazing that a “sexologist” can be this uninformed and naive. The problem is that the media talks to people who are educators instead of real participants in the things they wish to understand. A token sentence from the NLA prez is followed immediately with a sensational FOX news meme, “for some” or “Some say” Corneilius, could you please explain what you think fetish means? Also, I am curious as to exactly what the “sadistic lifestyle” is.

Stupid S&M News

Mon, 18 Feb 2008 16:33:14 -0500

Author: Corneilius
Date: Feb 19, 2008 7:00 AM

I find the whole ‘Fetish’ thing very amusing because most people, especially in the sadistic lifestyle, have no idea what the word ‘fetish’ actually means. It is so rediculous that some guy went so far as to invent a web page dedicated to the ‘Naked woman fetish’. It was really quite funny. I thought the remarks at the end of the article where very sucinct especially about how seeking pain has nothing to do with Love. “But simply having a wake-up call, no matter how startling, is not always enough. Kuriansky said it was rare for a masochist to finally become capable of associating sex with pleasure and love instead of pain and danger. “There is a triumvirate of guilt, embarrassment and fear of intimacy for these people,” she said. “It is rare that all of a sudden they can give up on being interested in pain and suddenly be capable of being loved.”

Stupid S&M News

Mon, 18 Feb 2008 16:33:14 -0500

Author: Peter Tupper
Date: Feb 18, 2008 6:18 PM
URL: http://www.historyofbdsm.com

Not exactly an insightful article… I wish there was some more nuanced discussion.

Leashed Human Pets Not Allowed

Thu, 24 Jan 2008 12:36:42 -0500

Author: Stormwatch
Date: Feb 3, 2008 10:11 PM

I’d like to tell them: NOT IN PUBLIC, YOU IDIOTS! I mean, common sense, would ya? A collar is fine, but a leash… looking for trouble or something? Bedroom things stay in the bedroom, it’s a matter of civility and politeness.

Sandra Chemero More

Sun, 15 Apr 2007 11:42:05 -0500

Author: Sean
Date: Jan 8, 2008 9:16 PM
URL: http://None

Sandra is a good person not a criminal. Vanilla people destroying a kind person. SEAN

Now for Mistress Rihanna

Sun, 09 Sep 2007 18:51:32 -0500

Author: Galemir
Date: Oct 13, 2007 10:49 PM

I’d like to put her in a secluded room… with me, and see if she can back up the act.

Now for Mistress Rihanna

Sun, 09 Sep 2007 18:51:32 -0500

Author: roo-roo
Date: Sep 10, 2007 5:25 PM

I’d love to put her on the spot and ask her if she can back up that act.

Mistress J-Lo?

Sun, 26 Aug 2007 17:35:02 -0500

Author: maymay
Date: Aug 31, 2007 4:25 PM
URL: http://maybemaimed.blogspot.com/

Okay, okay - you�re right. It�s a damn shame, and I�m going to do my part to help fight this. Right after I watch that video of her booty. Hey, don’t start without me. :) Finding and being put off by negative cultural implications in this stuff (men into BDSM are vermin, for instance) doesn’t mean I can’t pervert it to suit my own fancy. It’s the ultimate act of rebellion, in a way. :D Show me Jesus getting whipped and nailed on a cross, and I’ll show you a nice hard cock! God bless us all.

Gene Simmons' Dominatrix

Tue, 26 Jun 2007 09:07:05 -0500

Author: Tom Allen
Date: Aug 30, 2007 8:53 PM
URL: http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com

So, yeah it�s gonna be sexy, and it�ll pander to the comic book stereotype image of superhero women, I think that this is exactly what people in the kink community are afraid of. BDSM and D/s already get a pretty bad rap; in the media the characters are usually played for laughs, and the women are always 28 year old nymphs, and men are 48 years old and paunchy. Those of us who are 48 and trim are beginning to get bored with it all.

Mistress J-Lo?

Sun, 26 Aug 2007 17:35:02 -0500

Author: Tom Allen
Date: Aug 30, 2007 8:48 PM
URL: http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com

I don’t care what you say, May. I totally crush on JLo. Okay, okay - you’re right. It’s a damn shame, and I’m going to do my part to help fight this. Right after I watch that video of her booty.

Gene Simmons' Dominatrix

Tue, 26 Jun 2007 09:07:05 -0500

Author: Dr. Sexology
Date: Aug 30, 2007 6:43 PM

I think folks in the kinky community are afraid the comic book will show stereotypical images of both BDSM and professional domination.

Gene Simmons' Dominatrix

Tue, 26 Jun 2007 09:07:05 -0500

Author: Sean
Date: Aug 29, 2007 10:22 PM
URL: http://www.comicspace.com/seanhtaylor

As the writer for the book, I’d ask readers to give the book a chance before making any judgments. Early readers, and most of them women, usually finished the book telling me, “that’s not what I expected it to be.” So, yeah it’s gonna be sexy, and it’ll pander to the comic book stereotype image of superhero women, but I’m hoping that it’ll be the story that draws in folks and keeps ‘em coming back. Thanks and take care, Sean

Christian Domestic Discipline

Sun, 26 Aug 2007 17:43:59 -0500

Author: Corneilius
Date: Aug 29, 2007 6:08 AM

Maymay, you may dislike the process that fundamentalists use consent to defend, but many people equally dislike the abuse that sadists use consent to defend. You see, many of the crimes that you accuse fundamentalists of; absolutist, singular, monopolising, monotheistic, are exactly the components that empower sadists. What is a d/s relationship if it isn�t about some person feeding their narccistic supply by elevating themselves to a god like figure demanding the adoration of someone who has swallowed their dogma? Of course its all �consensual�, but if the defence works for a sadists and their sexual empowerment, its hypocritical at the very least to rule that it doesn�t work for a fundamentalist in their adoration towards god. The fact of the matter is, that both groups are wedded to a Dogma that wider society has little value for, are totalitarian in their approach, and both believe that theirs is the only truth. This paradox cuts right to the heart of both belief systems. It shows that despite the mutual loathing that each has for the other, they both teach that their belief system is superior to others and that they are the guardians of some special truth only achievable through membership of the group. You see much of what you accuse fundamentalists off, is exactly what sadism practices. Sadism is as fundamentalist as any god fearing sect, its object of adoration may be different, but the way it goes about promoting this belief is exactly the same process that fundamentalists use to address worrying contradictions that arise in their groups. Belief in a sacred science, Intolerance of others opinions, Adherence to group think, Shunning anyone who dares to question the Dogma of the group I ask again. Why your consent is any more legitimate then their consent? Answering that what you do is right and what they do is wrong is simply stating an opinion, not forming a coherent argument.